DISCLAIMER:
This post is not a bait and hook for compliments.
This post is something that IRKS me and STILL makes me scratch my head.
Boys, It's your turn to respond.
(Ladies, you're still welcome to put in your 2 cents lol)
What exactly makes a woman "HOT?"
Seriously... Everyone knows at least on of all three types I'm about to go through here... Along with a combination of some of them all mashed and meshed up together.
Caked-Faced-Nearly-Naked, I-Strive-To-Be-Different, and the There's-Something-About-Mary-Type.
THAT girl. Need I say more? The one that CAKES on her face (to the point if you saw her with no make-up on... you would have no idea who she was) and dresses like she works on the nearest street corner? Her facebook profile picture is her with f*ck*d up hair and her best duck face? Yeah, THAT girl. What in the world makes her "attractive?" Could it be what the media has pumped into the minds of our generation? Less clothes, more skin. More make-up, less weight..... okay, I'm done.
Seriously though... WHAT makes this girl attractive?
You know what? Forget the three types of girls.
Let's attack it from this angle.
How does a guy's mind work?? Maybe something like:
"This girl I could see myself screwing just for a one night stand... She's HOT. This girl I could see myself dating... but I don't think I could really ever take her seriously. And this girl, I could see myself with for the rest of my life... She's safe."
Is that how it works?
Does every guy have a different definition of hot?
Please break this down to me and every other woman on the earth.
Get. At. It.
Wow.. this is an interesting question, I must admit. Every guy is going to have a different answer but here's my attempt to answer. First, the makeup caked on, duck-faced, dresses like a slut.. yea to me that’s not hot. That's a desperate cry for attention, whether it be from insecurity about herself or narcissism. Dressing like a slut doesn't make you hot. It makes you look like a slut, end of story. (I actually have a funny story about this I'll have to tell you about someday) but I digress. I can't say if all guys minds work like you've described, but the sad thing is, for a lot of guys the answer is more or less how you described. Being in college you hear a lot of comments from guys about girls (and lets be fair, from girls about guys) ranging from “yea I’d do her, but I wouldn’t date her” to “she’s the one I’d bring home to mom” But, I would almost bet that a lot of females have the same categories for guys. There's the one they want to have sex with, the one they want to date, and the one they want to spend their life with.
ReplyDeleteI would say the most over-simplified answer to your question would be the same stuff that makes a guy hot to girls. It’s more of less the same principle. For guys, it’s the lean skinny girl with a good sized chest and a big butt. It’s the girl who has perfect skin and her hair is always done. The girl who’s toned and tanned with the whitest smile and the straightest teeth and the pretty eyes. For girls, it’s the tall, muscular tan guy with the 6/8/10 pack abs. The guy with the nice face and smile. Everything about the “hot” person is physical for most people.
I’m not sure if that’s what you’re looking for or if I just went on a rant here.. but that what I’ve got.